Shanghai girls' reputations tend to precede them throughout China. So today on Dear Amber we talk a bit about the cliches and whether they are true, to some degree, or not. Also, we answer a question from a Chinese friend about methods of caring for the elderly in the west versus here in China. And, in keeping with Aussie month, we speak with Irene An of the University of Sydney, who tells us about Chinese learning in Australia, and her firsthand experiences as an immigrant there.