Dayoung and Hye Ri(Amy)'s discussion
hhan
October 09, 2008, 02:14 PM posted in General DiscussionHi, dayoung! How's it going? I found these 8 dialogues very interesiting. In the first topic, there is a misunderstanding going on. What a shame.... ZL's mobile was off while he was working overtime. Obviously it was late night. And he was with the girl from last semester, FeiFei. I knew she would make some kinda trouble between ZL and LL.
I do understand how she felt when FF picked up the phone, laughing. LL could've imagined of anything. However, I personally think that LiLi is hot-tempered person. She at least should have talked with ZL and sorted out what was really going on. FF is just a collegue...
Or ZL should have at least texted to LL that he is running out of the battery, and working overtime tonight...
What did you think Dayoung? :)
hhan
October 09, 2008, 03:11 PMMe neither.. But to an extreme person like LiLi,I shouldn't stir her up. Yes.. again Chen Jing is a good friend. she complements ZL although LL is kinda bitching about him lol
I think it's good that LL has a friend to condide her true feelings because it's sometimes better to speak out than just to keep sth in mind.
CJ says that she is thinking too much. I agree with her. In this situation, LL could even write a story. And I also think that co-workers can joke around with each other for the better work environment.
In the third part, they finally break up. ZL tried really hard to sooth LL, but she wouldn't believe him. If your boyfirend is like LL, what would you do? LL is .... just too much.. so doubtful. However, ZL also said a sensitive word to LL that all women are all just obverly suspicious. LL might have been more angry because of this remark. What is worse, LL hurted ZL's pride, comparing with her ex-boy friend,a millionnaire. She shouldn't have said that because I guess ZL already feels that he's behind and kinda sensitive about Liu Xing. No good!!!!
Finally, they ended up breaking up. I feel sorry for them.... becasue bad ending ruins their beautiful memories they shared as well. LL is emphasizing that she was the one who was kicked out. I think she feels bad about it.
dkim1
October 09, 2008, 03:45 PMyeah...breaking up is always sad..hahah
If my boyfriend is like LL, I will be crazy..haha well, i definitely break up before i get crazy...to doubt is the worst thing to keep a good relationship between lovers. And I think Lili wants too much things from ZL... she wants ZL only think about her and suspicious him when she feel ZL is negligent to her... It surely make ZL getting sick of LL and get tired everytime he tries to solve misunderstands that LL made... And as you said, LL supposed not to compare ZL with her ex-boyfriend... i think it is the main reason of ZL tell LL to break up... however, in any worse situation, i think ppl never easily say to break up to lovers ...its the most hurtful word for each other...hahah
The next script is about the ZL's dad's adivice..... Well, I dont know how you like..but I don't much ask mom/dad's advice about any problem between me and my boyfriend...do you? I jst feel embarrassing to tell about what happened between our relationship....hahaha anyway, as ZL's dad says in the script, when ZL is troubled with breaking up with LL, dad gives ZL advice as saying it is the agony of love that everyone go through include himself.. It is bit funny when dad tells about his love story but i do agree with him about as time passed by, everything will be better. Unlike ZL,k I think the way of learning about love is the same no matter what generation is........ isn't it? hahaha
hhan
October 09, 2008, 03:50 PMI agree with you. Love remains the same to every generation. I don’t really talk about my boyfriend to my parents. Yes, it is embarrassing lol, but my mum is disappointing with the fact that I am not telling her about that.
I can sort of understand how desperate ZL would be. He shared a lot with LL and did many things, even devoted him to her, and she’s not here saying that he’s two-timing man. However, I guess if they are destined, they would somehow meet and get together again. There is no need to be so sad about. Although I say this, I won’t be so reasonable and feel as if nothing happened when I am in that situation. What is more, there is a misunderstanding and he couldn’t convince her till the end. It just takes time I suppose.
And ZL’s dad is a good man. He counsels his son about love affairs, saying that there are many girls out there. ZL says that his dad doesn’t know true love, but I think ZL is too naïve. It would be anyway sad if you broke with somebody who you spent much time with.
Another interesting thing here is this; I found that all dads say they were a decent popular guy when they were in our age. All dads seriously!! Does your dad say so? There is no way to prove that… so I just decided to believe my dad:) I think mum or dad is the best counsellor in the world because they already went through most things and hopefully found out the best answers. As I grow up, I feel that if I listen to my parents well, all things work well whether it’s a study, love or money matter. I hope ZL feel better soon.
Now, finally Liu Xing and LiLi meet. But I think it’s too soon to meet him … Don’t you thinkg so Dayoung? Anyways, no wonder, LX would be happy to hear that LiLi is single now. He keeps complementing LiLi that she’s the best girl in the world, good girl and so on. Here, I am kinda jealous!! But I don’t understand LiLi in that how could she go out with another guy just after the break-up? I now doubt if LiLi is a snob and she just wanted to make a reasonable excuse to escape from ZL. I feel sorry for ZL here.
I think LX is flattering to get LL’s heart. And I guess it was successful. Girls/women are simple as that! Several sweet words like ‘I will always be next you’ and ‘I would squeeze a time to meet you although I am busy’ etc. made her heart move. I think I am like that too although I do know all the words are not true. Are you like LiLi Dayoung?
dkim1
October 09, 2008, 04:13 PMyeah..i know.. i hate that kind of girl....:-( how can LL be happy to know about LX's mind? Even though she feel happy about LX still loves her, as you said it is really soon after she broke up with ZL.......it's kind of betrayal......I don't know why the title is 'seeking comfort'..it suppose to be 'seeking new lover'.....hahahaha I also feel sorry about ZL.....He is even thinking about LL while he is getting advice from his father...... then how LL accept LX's propose?? well, LX can satisfact LL's mind as he doing what she really want to do, but i think it is not good manner for ZL... bad girl!! (I also dont like LX uses too much oily words(bright words?...kk)
The next script is about accidental encounter after LL and ZL broke up. Even though they don't want to meet anymore after breaking up, it is hard to avoid... i can imagine how ZL flustered when he saw LL was with LX? It is bad timing LL introduce LX to ZL and it finally bring emotional fight between them... Zhenhua(ZL's firend) indirectly express bad impression about LX and LL being together, and if Im in that situation, I might be angry like ZH... won't you hyeri?
hhan
October 09, 2008, 04:28 PMI will be so angry when I was in that situatiuon. But I think ZL's friend was too mean to LX though.
In the next dialogue, ZL and LL meet again at the place where they first met. Now, they are looking back on the old days. I think it’s so sweet. I might fall in love with my ex again if I go to the special place with him because memories are all good. ZL apologise that he was too impulsive. Of course, they both were. ZL seems little bit depressed after the break-up. He says ‘destined to meet but not meant to be’. I think he still hasn’t forgotten LL completely. Similarly, I think LL is having a different life as she says that she sometimes finds hard to accept the change. Maybe LX is a successful business man, so what she does with him would be different from the old days; e.g. she might have to read more books to keep up their conversation etc.
LL says that they can still be friends, but I think it’s not really a possible thing to me. I can’t really accept my ex as a “friend”. I keep thinking about what we shared together, which makes me feel lonely and bad.
Oh~ LL is immigrating to Australia with LX. ZL must be sad and catch her.
dkim1
October 09, 2008, 04:41 PMI was bit surprised they end their relationship very rationally. They've been having trouble before and after they broke up...didn't they? Anyway, it is bit dubious LL emigrats to Australia with LX. I also felt kinds of pity for ZL can't get together with LL again... the place they are meeting is wehre they first met... it can be ZL's stratege to make LL recall about happiest time as being with ZL....it's just my opinion.......kk but ZL knows it's too late to catch LL's mind becuas LL says she and LX are engaged already....:( anyway when ZL says 'congratulations' as he hear that LL is leaving with LX, I though ZL is the man who has a good manner for the persone he loved. He definitely hopes LL's happiness and remain a good friend.. how sweet.. :)
Wow. the last script!
well. I though LL and ZL can be a good friend but now its not :( ZL still wants LL come back to him!! The naughty girl, LL is already fall in love with LX......istn't she? how can she hurts ZL that many times?? I don't understand what makes her that angry about ZL........it might be because she already had a new boyfriend(LX) who is much richer and succeed. I think LL is so shameless to having new boyfriend right after she broke up with ZL and ZL even wants to her come back. I hope ZL meets much much better woman than LL so make LL regret about leaving ZL. how's that hyeri? hahaha
hhan
October 09, 2008, 08:34 PMExactly, they are not anymore. They got aggressive again at the end. And ZL asking LL to go out again was not good because there is no point of saying that now. I agree with you. He might look for a really pretty, smart and considerate girl even for revenging LL. I enjoyed this discussion a lot, Dayoug! See you around~
dkim1
October 09, 2008, 02:50 PMOf courese ZL have to let Lili know that his cell phone have no battery...ohterwise Lili's gonna worry about him so much... but when i went through this script, i felt Lili is overly excited with ZL's behaviour..if Lili listen to ZL before she get angry, it will helpful to be decrease the misunderstands between them.... Lili's the way of saying hurts ZL's mind..... Well,actually, as you said, i do more understand Lili's mind rather than ZL.... I can say in the other way because it is not my situation...hahahah Anyway, It's so cute jealous!haha
And, When I was reading the second script, i felt Chenjing is a good person. because eventhough Lili says about ZL's mistakes(wrong behaviour toward Lili), CJ keep remind Lili that ZL is not that bad person. I think it shows that ChenJing hope Lili not to break up with ZL....
If this is my friends situation, i might cant give any good word for the man who hurt my friend... How about you hyeri???????????????