强调“事与愿违”，客观情况与本身主观意愿相违背，想做但是没做到，觉得自己努力过了可是受到环境限制，没有办法，但是听起来也有种推卸责任、消极被动的感觉。
qiángdiào “shì yǔ yuàn wéi ”，kèguān qíngkuàng yǔ běnshēn zhǔguān yìyuàn xiāng wéi bèi ，xiǎngzuò dànshì méi zuò dào ，juéde zìjǐ nǔlì guò le kěshì shòudào huánjìng xiànzhì ，méiyǒu bànfǎ ，dànshì tīng qǐlai yě yǒu zhǒng tuīxiè zérèn 、xiāo jí bèidòng de gǎnjué 。
Emphasising the fact that "things turn out contrary to the way one wishes them to happen", the objective situation is different to the subjective will. You want to do it, but you can't. You feel as if you have tried, but the situation has prevented you from doing it. There is nothing you can do about it. But it can sound like you are passing the buck or quite passive about the situation.