Japanese grass eaters

The article smells strongly of exaggeration

..hehe, yeah:

A recent survey found that one third of Japanese men aged between 20 and 34 had never even had a girlfriend, because most weren't even interested.

...1/3 is surprisingly high. Maybe they conducted the survey out among the buttercups.

What about "bishōnen"? I can't say I've watched a lot of it, but it seems to me men in anime have always been depicted as pretty darn feminine. In fact, that's what I'd assume is behind the grass-eater thing, though it wasn't mentioned in the article.

Bishonen 美少年 are impossibly beautiful boys/youths. They can be androgynous. Most often they'll have feminine features and a virginal look. They are very much objects of sexual desire (of men, and I guess women fall desperately in love with them too). I'm not familiar with anime either (where's Changye?). As far as I know, pretty-faced young men that dress up in frills and wear makeup and have long curly tresses don't appeal to homosexuals. Those ones form "visual-type" bands and become objects of female fantasies.

The guys we saw in the video (sorry, but) have zero appeal of that sort. Grass-eating people behave as if they've been neutered. They're non-sexual.

Being a grass-eater means you have no lust for anything; it doesn't mean you're feminine.

From wikipedia on bishonen:

it breaks down stereotypes surrounding feminine male characters. These are often depicted with very strong martial arts abilities, sports talent, high intelligence, or comedic flair, traits that are usually assigned to the hero/protagonist

...ring any bells?

"Baba, I think "getting in touch with your feminine side" is a very western, un-Asian concept."

..yeah, that would have been my guess [which is why I asked if there was that concept in Chinese culture], but this quote:

"The company denies that its customers are cross dressers, saying Japanese men simply want to get in touch with their inner woman"

..seemingly from a Japanese company made me wonder. Perhaps the concept has been imported to some degree through exposure to American culture.

"Imagine the culture questions to be dealt with endlessly."

..hehe, yeah, but what's wrong with that? Nothing like a bit of stimulating conversation on culture.

Yeah with this kind of line I suspect the writers of getting a bit too cute for my taste, and taking too many liberties. I would remain sceptical as to whether the Japanese maker of bras for men really actually said that. As far as I'm aware and I'm no expert or psychologist, these men wear bras because they find the idea of having such a secret (they wear them to work, under their salaryman suits), and being constricted is a physical and mental comfort. A security blanket I guess? Seeking and enduring a physical stress to displace the real-life mental stresses they're under?

Straight news-writing doesn't allow this sort of cuteness, but feature stories esp. ones on "light" subjects as this (and also benefiting from the added removal of a foreign country and language needing to be translated) can often get written like this. Many scripts turn out getting cute at times, like here. After all this is a piece on wacky Japanese-ness.

I agree stimulating conversations on culture are a good thing. There's only so much I think I can take though, when it comes to questions on crazy Japan. The interest from overseas in Japanese things seems overwhelmingly focused on anime and "kawaii" pop culture, "otaku-ism"--and wackiness. A lot of fringe stuff constantly gets front-page attention and it can get a bit exhausting, to try to understand and then explain those things that I'm not familiar with, all the time ...

What's the right way to translate "getting in touch with your feminine side" ?

接触你女性特征 ?

考虑你女性特征 ?

...

zhen,

Well said.Though I didn't mention it in my hasty post, I did consider that [journo's taking some liberties..plus translation issues,etc..all good points]. It's good to get your perspective.

I see what you mean about responding to the whacky fringe stuff.

It's already over and done with in China, hundreds of years ago. There's a quick way to get rid of those primal urges: 太监. And according to the Wikipedia article on bisōnen, "it has roots in ancient Japanese literature, the homosocial and homoerotic ideals of the medieval Chinese imperial court and intellectuals, and Indian aesthetic concepts carried over from Hinduism, imported with Buddhism to China".

太监？Ouch!

I was wishfully thinking more in terms of personal self-control dude, not having bits of me cut off!

No pain no gain, bro.

呵呵，对了！中国人很喜欢这个俗话，你发现？反正，还有《三十六计---走为上》！

Tal

you said:

"Think how much we'd get done if we could just switch off those primal urges"!

Well, Ive had that same thought many times in my life, but then, I just say nah, and get on with it. Im really not sure we would get any more done. Impressing women is the reason we build stuff - isnt it? Without that primal urge, we probably wouldnt do anything. But your point is well taken......nah.

I guess my tongue was in my cheek when I said that RJ! Certainly much of life, human behavior, and yes, human creativity, is closely linked to our sexuality. It's our animal nature and we're stuck with it, it's not like we got a choice, 呵呵. At times it's a bummer though, 对吧？There's part of me that can envy a person, anyone, who simply does not feel the need or desire to chase after a member of the opposite sex (or the same sex for that matter) to make them 'happy' or 'complete'. To enjoy simple uncomplicated pleasures like sweets, strawberry tea, and a nice comfy bra... no wait, not that last one!

Hi Simon,

Here I thought Eunichs were created to keep the staff from messing with the Emperor's wives. Nip it in the bud so to speak. You can stick with all that philosophical high brow shit if you want to, but I like my idea better. Occam's razor as it were. (one of your favorites) And here the razor is literal. Anyway with all them grass eaters running around you ought to take a trip to Japan. There should be some great fodder for your blog there. Like the gal at the end of the video said, (more or less) where there are grass-eating men, there will be man-eating women.

Forgive me Zhen, just having some fun.

Wait, what philosophical high brow shit? I just quoted Wikipedia, dude! I'm pretty sure you're right about the purpose. Anyway, it doesn't seem to have made the eunuchs sit around and enjoy strawberry tea. I understand they were often fiercely career-minded. I do wonder a bit about the "homosocial and homoerotic ideals of the medieval Chinese imperial court and intellectuals". Anyone got the dirt on that?

As for going to Japan, I cannot stand the look of their writing. I'm sure there would be a lot of hilarious adventures to be had, and the culture is not without merits (NINJAS!!!!!), but how can I go to a country that mixes 楷书 and 草书 like that? It looks like someone wrote half of the words in Garamond and half in Comic sans!