对，刚，强，兵，飞等字都比较阳刚，通常用做男生名。丽，婷，萍，菲等字则比较阴柔，自然在女生名中比较流行。不过倒是有女生起比较男性化的名字，倒显得很帅气和有个性。比如说“若男”，就能体现女子坚强的一面。不过现代人都不是特别讲究了，只要好听和有涵义就好。当然也不排除有的家庭为了图吉利，会特意请算命师帮忙起个涵义特别好的名字。
duì ，gāng ，qiáng ，bīng ，fēi děng zì dōu bǐjiào yánggāng ，tōngcháng yòng zuò nánshēng míng 。lí ，tíng ，píng ，fēi děng zì zé bǐjiào yīnróu ，zìrán zài nǚshēng míng zhōng bǐjiào liúxíng 。bùguò dàoshì yǒu nǚshēng qǐ bǐjiào nánxìnghuà de míngzi ，dǎo xiǎnde hěn shuàiqì hé yǒu gèxìng 。bǐrú shuō “ruònán ”，jiù néng tǐxiàn nǚzǐ firm de yīmiàn 。bùguò xiàndàirén dōu bù shì tèbié jiǎngjiu le ，zhǐyào hǎotīng hé yǒu hányì jiù hǎo 。dāngrán yě bù páichú yǒude jiātíng wèile tú jílì ，huì tèyì qǐng suànmìngshī bāngmáng qǐ ge hányì tèbié hǎo de míngzi 。
Right. Names like ''Steel," ''Strong," ''Soldier," ''Flying," and so on are more masculine, and they're often used in boys' names. Names like ''Pretty," ''Graceful," ''Grass," and ''Fragrant" are more feminine, and they're naturally popular as girls' names. But some girls do have rather masculine names, so that they seem elegant and distinctive. For example, ''like a man" can express a lady's strong side. But modern people don't take it all that seriously anymore. As long as it sounds good and has some meaning, it's fine. Of course, we can't rule out that in some families hire a fortune teller to help them choose an extremely auspicious name, for the sake of getting good fortune.