我们以前都是把对方当孩子宠的，所以互相都很包容。有孩子以后一心扑在孩子身上，对他关心少了，挑剔多了，自己心里很急躁。他可能也有同感吧。
wǒmen yǐqián dōu shì bǎ duìfāng dāng háizi chǒng de ，suǒyǐ hùxiāng dōu hěn bāoróng 。yǒu háizi yǐhòu yīxīn pū zài háizi shēnshàng ，duì tā guānxīn shǎo le ，tiāoti duō le ，zìjǐ xīnli hěn jízào 。tā kěnéng yě yǒu tóng gǎn ba 。
Before, we coddled each other like children, so we were pretty tolerant of each other. After we had a child, all my effort went into that, and I considered his feelings less, became much pickier myself, and just felt really irritable. He probably feels about the same.