心理学家有说过,拖延症是种自我保护,并不是精神疾病。现代人处在日益激烈的竞争环境中,产生很大的“评价压力”,一些人恐惧自己没能力面对,于是选择拖延,因为拖延会带给人“掌控感”,也就是说即使最后失败,也可以给自己和他人一个合理的解释,一个台阶下。
xīnlǐxuéjiā yǒu shuō guo ,tuōyánzhèng shì zhǒng zìwǒbǎohù ,bìngbùshì jīngshén jíbìng 。xiàndài rén chǔzài rìyìjīliè de jìngzhēng huánjìng zhōng ,chǎnshēng hěndà de “píngjiàyālì ”,yīxiē rén kǒngjù zìjǐ méi nénglì miànduì ,yúshì xuǎnzé tuōyán ,yīnwèi tuōyán huì dàigěi rén “zhǎngkònggǎn ”,yějiùshìshuō jíshǐ zuìhòu shībài ,yě kěyǐ gěi zìjǐ hé tārén yīgè hélǐ de jiěshì ,yīgè táijiē xià 。
A psychologist once said, procrastination is a form of self-protection and that it is not a psychological disorder. People nowadays live in an ever more competitive environment, putting a lot of pressure from criticism, some people fear that they won't be able to measure up, so they choose to procrastinate, because procrastination gives them back a sense of control, so that even if they fail in the end, they can offer up an explanation to themselves and to others, an exit strategy.