some misunderstanding..
sisi_baby
August 09, 2009, 07:53 AM posted in General DiscussionMany foreigners think that CHinese girls are shallow and "too much" friendly ...
emmm...it depends...
Adimittedly, some girls are desperately for being married with white man and staying abroad for ever..
BUT things changes a lot, due to the emphasis on Women education of China, more and more educated Chinese women have their thoughts. and they are gentle, dignified..
THerefore, hope ppl respect Chinese girls..
calkins
August 10, 2009, 02:47 PMchangye, a cat is better than both a dog and a woman...you don't have to walk a cat. Even better because a cat won't lick you (unless of course that's what you're in to ;) Maybe bite and scratch, but I know from experience that some Chinese women do that!
(totally playing here btw).
貓
happyying
August 09, 2009, 02:54 PMany foreign man needs to be extremely careful because in deed there are Alot of chinese girls/women who will take advantage of you and your money, after they get what they want from you, well then you will mean nothing to them, yes they will use tricks, promises and all the time pretend to be very innocent when in fact they know all the games to play on you.. Be careful or you could lose alot
sisi_baby
August 09, 2009, 03:06 PMhappyying.....
I think u are despised on CHinese girls..
I know that many girls wanna go abroad and they married with white men..BUt other countries have this phenomenon as well. CHiese girl is not the only one...
sisi_baby
August 09, 2009, 03:08 PMmiantao...
不是不愿意说中文，是我对大家的中文底子没有谱儿。。
怕我说了，大家又看不懂。那就失去交流的意义了呀。。
祝你和你的女友甜甜蜜蜜啦
:)
changye
August 10, 2009, 01:01 AMHi miantiao
Looks like your reading ability in Chinese is much worse than I thought before. Probably that's the very reason why your profile shows you are a newbie learner.
pearltowerpete
August 10, 2009, 01:32 AMHi miantiao,
我不觉得她话里有话。她只不过第一次来留言，跟大家都不熟。请冷静一点，大哥 ;-)
Hi changye,
Everyone screws up from time to time. I know I do.
Please everyone, assume good will, until proven otherwise.
Hi sisi_baby,
I'm not sure what you're hoping will come from this conversation.
Of course we should all respect one another, regardless of gender or nationality.
miantiao
August 09, 2009, 10:17 AM呵呵！宝贝儿，不愿意讲中文呢！没关系，各个人都会矛盾呗！这很正常。但是我看你有一点诡计。
changye
August 10, 2009, 12:55 PMHi happyying
Judging from your personal profile, probably you're a Chinese woman. Am I right?
chanelle77
August 10, 2009, 01:14 PMI married my (white) husband for a Chinese visa and now do not want to go back to Europe. How about that?! ;-)
Tal
August 10, 2009, 01:25 PMchanelle, I would guess that's an atypical situation! ;)
changye, happyying is clearly just being atypically honest about Chinese women!?
changye
August 10, 2009, 01:39 PMHi tal
I don't know about that, but I can say that Western men are far more popular with Chinese girls than Japanese men are, unfortunately....
Tal
August 10, 2009, 01:47 PMDon't be regretful about it bro, I think you're better off with your chubby dog! A dog's affection is unwavering after all!
changye
August 10, 2009, 02:03 PMunwavering ......... as long as I feed her.
kimiik
August 10, 2009, 02:07 PMHi tal,
A dog is an animal, it likes you because you provide food and protection, otherwise it could bite you or even eat you. Women are not that different and have to work hard to control their animal brain in this same situation but it's feasible. ;o)
changye
August 10, 2009, 02:33 PMHi kimiik
A woman clearly has a good point that a dog doesn't have. You don't have to walk a woman every morning.
happyying
August 10, 2009, 11:45 AMI'm sorry if I offended you but these are facts and yes I will agree it probably does happen in other countries, but its not as common (where its known to happen alot in China) so why is that? and why do chinese girls want to marry white guys? its because they think there is more advantage, better lifestyle, citizenship in the US, ? I doubt its for love because when the man cant afford a particular way of living or runs out of money, that girl disappears-only to seek out another unsuspecting fool.
and I have nothing against chinese girls/women in general I just dont appreciate when using these types of tricks and then pretend they are innocent and I know people that this happened
apparently you know this to be true also or your post wouldnt have started with "Some misunderstanding.."
miantiao
August 09, 2009, 08:04 AM我女友不是那样子。他没有期望移民， 就一直说要我留在中国成为中国人诶！他说话也不是，哎哟怎么说呢，很色彩，外表比较凶，他内心不过很温柔。
你最后的句子我做不到，关于女人性格中国不是像各个国家一样呗！不是有善良温柔的、恶心诡计的、各种性格的嘛！