我同意你的观点,物质生活可以通过夫妻共同努力去改善,但是如果精神上、观念上的差距过大,一方完全不能认同另一方的生活模式,那就很糟糕了。
wǒ tóngyì nǐ de guāndiǎn ,wùzhì shēnghuó kěyǐ tōngguò fūqī gòngtóng nǔlì qù gǎishàn ,dànshì rúguǒ jīngshén shang 、guānniàn shàng de chājù guòdà ,yīfāng wánquán bùnéng rèntóng lìng yīfāng de shēnghuó móshì ,nā jiù hěn zāogāo le 。
I agree with your point of view, material circumstances can be improved through the hard work of the both the husband and wife, but if the psychological and conceptual difference is too big, one party will be completely unable to identify with the other's way of life and that's awful.