三从”是-太太 命令 要 服从;太太 外出 要 跟从;太太 说错 要 盲从。"四德"是-太太 买 东西 要 舍得;太太 生日 要 记得;太太 发威 要 忍得;太太 未归 要 等得。
sāncóng ”shì -tàitai mìnglìng yào fúcóng ;tàitai wàichū yào gēncóng ;tàitai shuōcuò yào mángcóng 。" "shì -tàitai mǎi dōngxi yào ;tàitai shēngrì yào jìde ;tàitai fāwēi yào rěnde ;tàitai wèiguī yào děngde 。
The ''three submissions" are: you need to obey your wife's orders; you need to follow your wife when she goes out; and you need to follow blindly when your wife says something wrong. The four virtues are: you need to buy whatever your wife wants; remember your wife's birthday; you need to buckle down and take it when your wife is in a rage; when your wife hasn't come back, you need to wait for her.