宁可信其有,不可信其无。这个说法还是挺吓人的,寡妇年,倒霉的是咱们男人。
nìngkě xìn qí yǒu, bù kě xìn qí wú 。zhè ge shuōfa háishì tǐng xiàrén de ,guǎfu nián ,dǎoméi de shì zánmen nánrén 。
You're better off believing it in case it's true. This expression is pretty scary. 'Widow's year'; it's us guys that are the unlucky ones.