那后来怎么处理的?我意识到这点之后,就尽力克制自己。你想想,我们可以无条件地爱孩子,为什么不能无条件地爱老公呢?多些耐心,少些挑剔,然后那种温情的感觉就又回来了。
nà hòulái zěnme chǔlǐ de ?wǒ yìshidào zhèdiǎn zhīhòu ,jiù jìnlì kèzhì zìjǐ 。nǐ xiǎng xiang ,wǒmen kěyǐ wú tiáojiàn de ài háizi ,wèishénme bùnéng wú tiáojiàn de ài lǎogōng ne ?duō xiē nàixīn ,shǎo xiē tiāoti ,ránhòu nà zhǒng wēnqíng de gǎnjué jiù yòu huílai le 。
So how did you deal with it? Once I realized that, I did my best to restrain myself. Think about it: we can love a child unconditionally, but why can't we love our husbands unconditionally? A bit more patience, a bit less fussiness, and pretty soon that warm feeling had returned.